Since we're on family secrets. Question for you all, what do you do about listing a parent when they were never wed?. My grandmother never told me her father, and I was told not to ask. Death certificate said unknown. But, it was known who the father was, and I have a letter from one of the father's family telling me the truth. Besides some of the rest of the family knew or suspected who the father was. Would you list this parent on your genealogy or leave the parentage blank? I hate having a hole in my lineage. My grandmother's mother never married and only had the one child. Robyn