Bill I agree that someone cannot link to a memorial posted by someone else. I have been successful at identifying and making contact with the person who created it originally. They can make the link with the memorial number that you provide. I have not experienced a turn-down by anyone. I did find one created by another who never responded to my messages. In that case, I simply created a new, duplicate memorial for the same ancestor and did the linkages myself. This has only happened once in all the connections that I have made. Larry