I can't remember who was looking for Mary Maria's parents, but I know you are on the list, and I think I've found them. If your Mary Maria married William Cadman on Jan 26, 1870 in Warsaw, NY, was she born about 1849? Checking some census records, there was a Beman Wilcox, 30y, wife Sally 28y bNY living in Warsaw in the 1850 census, with Francis A, 5y, bNY and Mary M. 1y, bNY. THey lived next door to Ira Wilcox 55y, bVT, wife Maria 50y, bConn, with Sylvester24y bNY. In the 1860 census, Ira has moved in with Beman, Sarah, Mary M (then 11y) and Francis, 10ym, bNY. I think Ira must've been Beman's father, and this may be the connection with your Mary Maria. Good luck (and if anyone finds Welcome Wilcox's parents, please let me know!) Vicki