(sigh).......I was afraid of that. I have been in that spot too, Sandy.......which is why I try to bend over backward to not appear to be a "lock and key" list admin. I'll try and contact her. Thanks for letting me know. Mari At 09:42 PM 2/20/02 , SandysSerchin' wrote: >Mari >I think you are a wonder list administrator too and I have always >appreciated help you have given me, but it is too late Tammie is >gone. She was upset and I don't think she knew it was a wrong question to >ask, completely innocent. She unsubscribed because she said the only 2 >messages she posted had a negative response and I have done that with >another list I belonged to because I felt like I was under such lock and >key and had to walk on eggshells. You have a good list here and I told >her that she should stay, but sometimes people take things personally and >maybe she was already having a bad day and one negative message to her, >probably upset her. I don't believe she knew a family tree question >wasen't genealogy and she thought everyone on this list was so helpful so >that is why she asked. >It's too bad she had the wrong idea about you. I did however tell her you >were always very nice and you let the popcorn thing go for a while >Sincerely, >Sandy > >~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ >Researching FAULL CORNWALL ENGLAND>PA>WI>IA >JEFFERS, NEWTON, SCOTT FROM NY>WI>IA >BLANCHARD, RACEY, FULLER >CT>NY>IA >JEWELL, CORNWALL ENGLAND>WI-GRANT CO >BEEMAN, FAULL, McCLOUD/McLOUD, CROW, WI>IA>Washington & Marion County,OR >KINNEY VT>WI>IA>OREGON >OBERMIRE, MANN, PRITCHARD LIAS IN Plymouth Co IA >McLOUD/McCLOUD VA>WI >TURNER FOWLER AND ATTEBERRY OREGON >ATTEBERRY TX?>MO>OR>CA >FERNANDEZ, SANCHEZ, LOPEZ, From Spain>Hawaii>CA >TRIGUERO, CASTRO Veles/Velez, Malaga, SPAIN > > > > >_____________________________________________________________ >Sign up for FREE email from The PI Directory at http://www.pi-directory.com > > >============================== >To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, >go to: >http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237