Please, please, please can we get back to the original genealogy and family history on this list after such a long difficult struggle? Can each one of us please refrain from long preachy sermons about how others should act, or going on at great length about our "feelings". Can be go back to making it safe to ask questions, offer suggestions and look at things from different directions? One caring skillful, hard working adult to another? I deeply miss the time when we had that. Yes, me included of course, Rita