And all this while I thought this was an important group project to help for now and the future! Oh, my mistake. Now you can get in the last word as always, I'm done. And for the past over a year I have kept my promise and not commented. Your turn, make it good, it will be your last shot at me. Rita Jan Cortex wrote: >You lost it years ago sweetie - your arrogance certainly doesn't become you. > > Boo hooo, I've lost the popularity contest! > > Rita > > Jan Cortez wrote: > > > >> Oh, I am so terribly sorry - we just can't all be as perfect as *you* > >> seem > >> to think you are. Why don't you grow up and quit sending your > >> nastygrams? "R.M.N." wrote: > Jan, > > Grow up. Stop trying to make everyone feel guilty and take sides over things > that are not happening. If you are having so much trouble with the attention > your are getting in so many ways, all the time, maybe you need to look at this > far more carefully to understand your own part in it. It can't always be > "everyone else". > > Rita > > Debie & Joe wrote: > > > Jan, > > > > I think you are taking this way to personally. I didn't get > > the impression that Mari was attacking you or telling you she didn't > > want to hear your ideas. She was bringing concerns about visually > > impaired people. Perhaps all it would have needed was to point out > > that it could be done either way. Mari did say she is sight impaired, > > perhaps she didn't see that it could be done two ways. > > > > Don't take this so much to heart, we have all stopped > > attacking each other, > > > > I hope you have a better day, > > > > Debie Blindauer > > > > Calumet & Sheboygan Counties > > > > At 12:59 PM 1/27/2006, you wrote: > > >My apologies Mari...... I guess I haven't realized yet that I > > >cannot say anything on WIGEN- without it being taken the wrong > > >way. God, I must be a horrid person...... > > > > > >I really think its time for me to reassess my priorities and maybe > > >completely removing myself from USGenWeb is the route to take. I'll > > >be thinking that over for a few weeks while I stay away from this computer. > > > > > >I have cried over this this morning until I am sick and I NEVER ever > > >want to have to repeat this again. > > >

I guess I must have missed some e-mails and now I can also say I guess I was wrong when I made the statement that we have stopped attacking each other. I should have and will only speak for myself from now on. I have stopped attacking people and will not do it again. I wish we could try very hard to be nice, if you don't get along with someone, hey, that's alright. We don't always like everyone we are around. However, I really wish that the nastiness would be kept to one self. I think that Jan simply misunderstood what Mari was saying, perhaps she did misread the letter and then felt bad. I am not sure, I am not Jan and don't want to assume anything on her part. However, the nastiness that showed up in my e-mail both now and earlier today, I believe was way to strong. Rita, if you don't like Jan, that's alright, I am not trying to say you have too. However, I wish you would at least be civil to the list. If you need to say something to Jan, please send it privately or just run around your house ranting about how she makes you feel, whichever you would prefer to do. As for the e-mail addresses and spam, have you tried the html for making the @ sign? Back some time ago, Ellen shared this information with me. All you have to do is change the @ symbol to @ When placing your mouse over it, the it shows as the @ symbol, but for the spam programs that harvest e-mails, it misses these because it looks for the @ symbol and it isn't there. It is real simple to use and real fast to change. I have been using it for all of my webpages since Ellen told me about it. Just a thought, Debie Blindauer Calumet & Sheboygan Counties At 09:46 PM 1/27/2006, you wrote: >And all this while I thought this was an important group project to help >for now >and the future! Oh, my mistake. Now you can get in the last word as >always, I'm >done. And for the past over a year I have kept my promise and not >commented. >Your turn, make it good, it will be your last shot at me. >Rita > >Jan Cortex wrote: > > >You lost it years ago sweetie - your arrogance certainly doesn't become >you. > > > > > > Boo hooo, I've lost the popularity contest! > > > Rita > > > > > > Jan Cortez wrote: > > > > > >> Oh, I am so terribly sorry - we just can't all be as perfect as >*you* > > >> seem > > >> to think you are. Why don't you grow up and quit sending your > > >> nastygrams? > >"R.M.N." wrote: > > > Jan, > > > > Grow up. Stop trying to make everyone feel guilty and take sides over >things > > that are not happening. If you are having so much trouble with the >attention > > your are getting in so many ways, all the time, maybe you need to look >at this > > far more carefully to understand your own part in it. It can't always >be > > "everyone else". > > > > Rita > > > > Debie & Joe wrote: > > > > > Jan, > > > > > > I think you are taking this way to personally. I didn't get > > > > the impression that Mari was attacking you or telling you she didn't > > > > want to hear your ideas. She was bringing concerns about visually > > > impaired people. Perhaps all it would have needed was to point out > > > that it could be done either way. Mari did say she is sight >impaired, > > > perhaps she didn't see that it could be done two ways. > > > > > > Don't take this so much to heart, we have all stopped > > > attacking each other, > > > > > > I hope you have a better day, > > > > > > Debie Blindauer > > > > > > Calumet & Sheboygan Counties > > > > > > At 12:59 PM 1/27/2006, you wrote: > > > >My apologies Mari...... I guess I haven't realized yet that I > > > >cannot say anything on WIGEN- without it being taken the wrong > > > >way. God, I must be a horrid person...... > > > > > > > >I really think its time for me to reassess my priorities and maybe > > > >completely removing myself from USGenWeb is the route to take. >I'll > > > >be thinking that over for a few weeks while I stay away from this >computer. > > > > > > > >I have cried over this this morning until I am sick and I NEVER >ever > > > >want to have to repeat this again. > > > > > > > >==== WIGEN Mailing List ==== >Celebrate Wisconsin! >Visit the Taylor County WIGenWeb Project Pages >http://www.rootsweb.com/~witaylor/

Jan, You are dismissed as WIGenWeb Project CC. I have no clue what your thought process is, but for a very long time it has not been conducive to the good work of the WIGenWeb Project. As State Coordinator, I have a choice. The good work of many and the benefit to researchers vs. your overwhelming unhappiness in the work you do within the project. I choose the WIGenWeb Project. Jan, I wish you well, but I can not condone, nor will I let continue to let your unhappiness at whim to destroy WIGenWeb Project. I have delinked your counties, and with this note unsubscribed you from WIGEN-L. Tina ----- Original Message ----- From: "R.M.N." <ocontogal2000@yahoo.com> To: <WIGEN-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Friday, January 27, 2006 10:46 PM Subject: [WIGEN-L] True colors > And all this while I thought this was an important group project to help > for now > and the future! Oh, my mistake. Now you can get in the last word as > always, I'm > done. And for the past over a year I have kept my promise and not > commented. > Your turn, make it good, it will be your last shot at me. > Rita > > Jan Cortex wrote: > >>You lost it years ago sweetie - your arrogance certainly doesn't become > you. > > > >> > Boo hooo, I've lost the popularity contest! >> > Rita > > > >> > Jan Cortez wrote: >> > >> >> Oh, I am so terribly sorry - we just can't all be as perfect as > *you* >> >> seem >> >> to think you are. Why don't you grow up and quit sending your >> >> nastygrams? > > "R.M.N." wrote: > >> Jan, >> >> Grow up. Stop trying to make everyone feel guilty and take sides over > things >> that are not happening. If you are having so much trouble with the > attention >> your are getting in so many ways, all the time, maybe you need to look > at this >> far more carefully to understand your own part in it. It can't always > be >> "everyone else". >> >> Rita >> >> Debie & Joe wrote: >> >> > Jan, >> > >> > I think you are taking this way to personally. I didn't get > >> > the impression that Mari was attacking you or telling you she didn't > >> > want to hear your ideas. She was bringing concerns about visually >> > impaired people. Perhaps all it would have needed was to point out >> > that it could be done either way. Mari did say she is sight > impaired, >> > perhaps she didn't see that it could be done two ways. >> > >> > Don't take this so much to heart, we have all stopped >> > attacking each other, >> > >> > I hope you have a better day, >> > >> > Debie Blindauer >> > >> > Calumet & Sheboygan Counties >> > >> > At 12:59 PM 1/27/2006, you wrote: >> > >My apologies Mari...... I guess I haven't realized yet that I >> > >cannot say anything on WIGEN- without it being taken the wrong >> > >way. God, I must be a horrid person...... >> > > >> > >I really think its time for me to reassess my priorities and maybe >> > >completely removing myself from USGenWeb is the route to take. > I'll >> > >be thinking that over for a few weeks while I stay away from this > computer. >> > > >> > >I have cried over this this morning until I am sick and I NEVER > ever >> > >want to have to repeat this again. >> > > > > > > ==== WIGEN Mailing List ==== > Celebrate Wisconsin! > Visit the Taylor County WIGenWeb Project Pages > http://www.rootsweb.com/~witaylor/ > >