The message may be a freedom of speach issue, but it also is slandering your good name. You have every right to be feeling injured by the remarks. If someone said that about me, you can bet they would have a law suit on their hands...and I would find out who they were. Hopefully, it can be deleted. It won't matter to those who do not know of you...and it certainly hasn't changed the Whaley groups opinion of you. A sunny day is a sunny day. Thats all there is to it. You two are great. The person is just not well mannered, in my humble opinion. Mary