Bev Ouida was a female. I've seen two sources list Rufus Calhoun West, one in a Book called the Genealogy of Randolph Murff by Paul murff, which I have a copy and an excerpt from Wilder and ware familiea sent to me by jecain@ worldnet.att.net both basicly say Rufus Calhoun west married Emma Lou Ware. So I believe it is calhoun. I'm not sure where charles fits in