Chuck: I don't believe there is a headstone for Ezra Washburn Sr.in Stafford, CT. The Willington, CT town historian sent me a copy of a typed Washburn genealogy from a descendent of Ezra's son, William. Mrs. Roy Anderson sent the genealogy and in her sources, she states that a family story says that Ezra is buried in the same grave as Ezra Jr. who also died in 1793. I will let you lnow if I find out anything different. Keith Wilson