Robert, This is a noble effort. I don't know of any NJ service man, but wonder who is "Our Society"? The one you said wants to put grave markers on the gravesites of War of 1812 vets? Is this New Jersey project a part of a nation wide group or a society of some sort or is it only a NJ endeavor? What type of marker exactly will be placed? Wording, its size and shape? I have a program on W of 1812 to give in Omaha in near future and would like to possibly mention what your society is attempting to do etc.. Ron Gaddis, Lincoln, NE