I don't know if this is of any use, but I note that Mary Weatherhead's sister Rhoda married Isaac Barber and had a son Isaac Barber Jr who married a Betsy Stearns, bc 1794 in Guilford VT. The IGI mentions a Daniel Stearns and Elizabeth Hall who had daughters Lucinda and Betsy; some of their children were born in Killingly Windham CT, from whence many Guilford families came. Others of their children were said to be born in Berkshire Co MA. (Also my Weatherhead book says that Joel married Lucy Stearns or Stevens--and that's all it says.) Good luck, Helga