Hi, I am new to this list, and am looking for information on Harden/Hardin/Harding Thurber. He was b. in Rehoboth MA 13 Nov 1760 but went to Vermont and appears in 1790 census in Brattleboro, unmarried. I have read reports of a marriage both to Lucinda Cune and to Lydia Baker. These marriages took place in Brattleboro. One may have been in 1793 and another in 1811. I also have seen a cemetery report of the death of Lucinda , wife of Hardin Thurber on 30 March 1809 at age 42. I believe this was from West Brattleboro Cemetery Association, VT page 23 line 338. His children were Elvira b. 1799, Lydia Baker b. 1803, Lucinda Elizabeth b. 1809, James Harden b. 1813, and Phoebe Barret b. 1815. One would assume that Lydia Baker Thurber b. 1803 would have been the dau. of Lydia, and that Lucinda Elizabeth would have been the dau. of Lucinda Cune. However, if Lucinda was the 2nd wife, then who was the mother of the last 2 children? She died before they were born. Does anyone know which marriage occurred first and if there was a third marriage? Harden died 19 Apr. 1822. Florence Thurber Gargaro