Hello all: After listening to the fighting going on here, I can see how a conflict can start from a peaceful discussion to a shouting match to name calling to.........violence. All I have to say it that for whatever reason we should almost be grateful for the Civil War Conflict. Because most of us would probably not be here to discuss it or anything at all. Who would of our Greats-Grandmothers married if there hadn't of been the war???? Jay