Falmouth is in Stafford co. Va. zip code 22406 now. I live in Stafford Co. their are alot of Thomas in this area and also Lightner families. The church that is in ruins was the Union Church, nondemonationlly. The Wallace Library in Fredericksburg has obit index. I voluntary at the FHC here. We have a book of marraige for this area and it lists the minister and what church they were from. If you e-mail privately, when I go next Wed, I can look up the information. My E-mail is emamcd@erols.com Hope to hear from you, Esther