I hope you get some help from native Virginians to locate the cemetery. I am only a frequent visitor to Virginia (when I can scrape up enough to come from the West Coast). Some years ago, I took a tour one Sunday of the Civil War battlefields around Richmond, and the Cold Harbor National Cemetery was one of the sights. There have been some recent burials--from the Korean War. Call up one of the National Battlefields, or, if you are near Richmond, call a reference librarian at the VA State Library to get the exact location. My DeLorme Virginia Atlas & Gazetteer does not show the cemetery. In fact, it shows Cold Harbor Farms and then slightly to the east is Old Cold Harbor. Confusing, eh wot? Does the National Park Service or the National Cemeteries have a website? E.W.Wallace