Mary, In the book "Buckingham Burials, Vol. 1" I find Stephen Farmer buried in the "Farmer Family Cemetery. He is the only one there. The inscription says Stephen served in "CO E, 20 Va. Inf., C. S. A. " There is a notation that there are others buried in this cemetery and some of the graves are marked with field stones and some are unmarked. It says the cemetery is located on Highway 60-690. Stephen's is the only tombstone. Hope this helps. Alicegayle@aol.com