I also have ask someone to take My mothers name off of a web site but for a different reason I have family in the military and security is very important to this person and so far the party that put this information is refusing to delete this from her site and Ancestry.com I am under the understanding that Genealogy is discovering about your roots not hurting the living Please if someone asks you to take information about a family member off be considerate and do so atolah in NC