Jan, My condolences on the loss of your son. My heart grieves for you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I cannot begin to comprehend your staggering loss, but I know God can confort and help you. You will find this list is much like family. Although many of us are silent, others semi-active, and still others always on task, we count each as family and when one has a problem we support each other. Please know you have a whole new support system in the Red River Family. Ginger Geary Annona (just outside Clarksville)