This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/an/hkB.2ACE/5820.1.2 Message Board Post: I hope you read my previous reply to your message. I was just wondering. . . . if my request for help bothered you so much, why did you bother taking the time to help me? No one forced you to. Perhaps I should have stated that I could not get around that well with my request, along with all the mundane details. Would that have tempered your irritation? I would rather not have to say with each message, "Due to illness . . ." You did help and for that I am grateful. But the tongue lashing was not needed or necessary. I wish, more than you, that I could get around and do everything I used to - but sometimes life is just not that kind.