This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Surnames: Whited and Onstott Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/rw/JiB.2ACE/602 Message Board Post: I found Calvin Whited in the 1860 census in Grimes Co., TX. He was a Bar tender. On searching I found where he had applied for license to run a bar. In 1870 his wife was living with a policeman and his family in Brazos Co., TX which is right next to Grimes. Co., I am assuming that Cal was dead by this time. Wheather he was killed in the Civil War or if he was killed in a bar fight I can't tell. The childrens ages were 9 and 2 so he married in 1860 or 1861 and died around 1878. His wife was Mary Jane Onstott born 1842 in AR. I can not find them after 1870. I need someone to see if they are burried in Grimes or Brazos Co., TX and maybe if she married again. Any help would be appreciated. Rhodene