Ron, That is wonderful information to share. On the cemetery index list for that cemetery, whoever put it online, should be able to in there next to their individual names and edit it to include "wife of ....." or "husband of ???" etc. Also add "married to ???? on ??/??/?? in ???place". Again, it is true....all up to Head Momma Suzie and how she wants to handle it. Just givin suggestions and ideas... Debra