I was stunned when I found my son's monument uploaded by someone I don't know on FAG. My heart just plunged to my stomach. I actually felt a sense of terror I cannot explain. It was reminiscent of being absolutely unable to bring Ryan back, no matter how much I bargained with God. It felt like that total lack of control. I feel very proprietary of Ryan's grave site, tending to the landscaping and keeping candles lit... weeding surrounding graves.  It was a shock that someone I don't know owns Ryan's entry on FAG when I didn't want it up there at all. But I do see that Ryan's information was added by someone with compassion. So I just let it sit.   Sherry www.1StopGenealogy.net ________________________________ From: Michele Lewis <ancestoring@gmail.com> To: 'Suzanne ' <t4tsinda@bigpond.com> Cc: 'TGF' <TRANSITIONAL-GENEALOGISTS-FORUM-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Sunday, October 14, 2012 10:04 PM Subject: Re: [TGF] Innappropriate listings on Find a grave or elsewhere. I will say that someone posted a photo request in my area of a 16 year old boy that had died in a car wreck about 2 weeks earlier.  I just couldn't do it.  I didn't claim the request.  The boy was the son of the pastor of the church down the road from me. Michele The Transitional Genealogists List was created to provide a supportive environment for genealogists to learn best practices as they transition to professional level work. Please respect the kind intentions of this list. ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to TRANSITIONAL-GENEALOGISTS-FORUM-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message