Like several of you, I was very surprised to find a memorial page on Find A Grave for a relative (my father) posted by a stranger which included his obituary (written by me). He had been cremated, but not yet interred. In fact the memorial was created the same day the obituary was published. I discovered the page a few months later, and the creator promptly and graciously turned over the management to me. I have since added a photo of his gravestone. In my experience, every time I have asked a Find A Grave page creator to transfer management of a page of a family member, they have done so. I think most people who create these pages are doing so as a service. Anita