While I do find it appalling that people are creating memorials for persons recently dead, or photoshopping stones, I would like to share an experience I had this summer. A mother who had lost her 20 year old daughter earlier this year knew that her daughters stone had just been placed, she sent out a photo request for her daughter's stone as she lives about 3 hours away. I had a few minutes, the cemetery was about 10 minutes from my house and so I set off. Within an hour I had posted the photo (memorial owned by the mom), and the tearful thank you I received was so heartfelt. Without FAG it might have been weeks or months till she was able to view the stone in person. This is an example of a recently deceased memorial that was all for good. On side note I have created my fathers and my in-laws memorials so that I have a bit of control over what is posted. -- Susan C. Fassbender Outagamie and Beyond