I just wanted to let everyone know that I appreciate their condolences on my brother's loss and that I'm not overly angered by the placement of this memorial. I just didn't understand it, really. FAG is about burials, not memorials - my brother wasn't buried and even if he was, this contributor clearly has no further information about it. I don't know this person at all, so I assume they just found the notice in the paper. It's not even the obituary, as that wasn't published in that state and nothing from the obituary is included. Why put someone who has no grave on FAG? I am mystified. At any rate, my family and I asked the person to remove it, and I hope they will comply. Dana