Cathy your maternal grandmother sounds like someone I shared an apartment with back in the 1960s. In the 4 months that I lived with her she used three different last names: mother's, father's, each of two husband's. I suspect it had to do with bill collectors... change the name on the mailbox if you don't want to get a particular bill. The result was that whenever the letter carrier had mail for that address but no idea of the apartment he'd put it in our box. I also have a family line that sometimes was LOSS and sometimes DeLOSS. They'd move between towns. They never owned land (like the father's siblings who were successful) and the obit in the newspaper commented that Job was the Bible verse at his funeral and that it was an appropriate text. Erica On Sun, Oct 14, 2012 at 9:20 PM, Cathy Champion <cacshantih@sbcglobal.net>wrote: > We all have to start somewhere, and I think that most people who post at > Find a Grave have good intentions but not necessarily the correct > procedure. > > If I find something that's wrong I'll send a short email with > the correction and a "thank you" for their time. If they use info from > the cemetery records/gravestones themselves, those may be incorrect at the > start. > > Maybe I'm wrong, but I appreciate the wrong stuff too because sometimes > it supplies me with somewhere else to look and, just maybe, I'll find > what's correct or missing for my files. > > > > I'd be thrilled to find something, right or wrong, on my maternal > grandmother. She was one of a set of triplets left in a St. Louis > orphanage at birth. No first or last names, no birth dates; nothing to go > on. She used different given and maiden names on all three of her > daughters' birth certificates. If a name caught her fancy, she used it. > Her husband's name is the only thing that's consistent on them; she even > played around with various combinations of birth dates. > > > > Cathy Champion in Fenton, MO 63026 (near St. Louis) > > > > *"When a man loves cats, I am his friend and comrade without further > introduction" - Mark Twain* > > > ------------------------------ > *From:* "Dee Dee King, Certified Genealogist" < > king@forensicgenealogyservices.com> > *To:* Erica Voolich <voolich@gmail.com> > *Cc:* TGF <TRANSITIONAL-GENEALOGISTS-FORUM-L@rootsweb.com> > *Sent:* Sun, October 14, 2012 7:59:23 PM > *Subject:* Re: [TGF] Find-A-Grave > > This is what happens when folks care more about being in the game, than in > doing the right thing. > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Erica Voolich" <voolich@gmail.com> > To: "Genealady" <genealady@gmail.com> > Cc: "TGF" <TRANSITIONAL-GENEALOGISTS-FORUM-L@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Sunday, October 14, 2012 12:42:08 PM > Subject: Re: [TGF] Find-A-Grave > > Dana > My condolences on your loss. That is terrible. > I thought the family should be the "owner" of the page on a person if there > was one available. > If you don't want your brother up, I think you should ask them to take it > down. > Erica > > On Sun, Oct 14, 2012 at 1:33 PM, Genealady <genealady@gmail.com> wrote: > > > I was shocked to find someone had put my brother on findagrave when he > > died last week. The information was taken from the newspaper and he was > NOT > > buried. He was cremated and we don't even have his ashes yet. I am still > > sorely tempted to ask them to remove it. Erroneous and disrespectful in > my > > opinion. > > > > Dana > > > > On Oct 14, 2012, at 10:21 AM, "Donna McR" <donna316@tx.rr.com> wrote: > > > > > Silly me. Until recently, I thought the postings on Find-a-Grave were > > > sourced from literally reading the gravestones and/or taking > photographs. > > > In the absence of these, I thought at least some evidence was available > > that > > > the person was buried there---by cemetery records or at least by > personal > > > knowledge that the grave actually existed in that place. Any dates > > attached > > > to the posting I thought were sourced with one or all of the above. > > > > > > However, lately I have been seeing graves posted, along with birth and > > death > > > dates and information about immediate family, that are just incorrect. > > The > > > erroneous information just happens to match some incorrect information > > also > > > passed around on internet family trees. > > > > > > These persons are posting **as fact** information that has no basis of > > > proof. 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