I started doing something similar to this 10 years ago. As I find my family members, I place small bunches of flowers on thier graves. I am presently taking care of 43 of my family members. I am now cleaning/restoring a small cemetery in Garvin County, Oklahoma where I have placed flowers on 50 graves. I buy the flowers/flags out-of-season.And it makes me feel really GOOD. I will be happy to place flowers on any Garvin County, Okla. grave if I can find it. If all else fails, I just put an arrangement on the gate(many cemeteries never have any flowers).I so appreciate your words as I am so sorry to see so many neglected/forgotten cemeteries. Betty Barnett Norman, Oklahoma