Rae, You both will be in my prayers. I also have a daughter, so I can only imagine how frightened you must be. As for your list: Like Milly, I also am on that list. You go right ahead & say on that list what you want to!!!!!!!! Why don't you do like Chip? Change the rules to the way you want them to read & post them on your site for all to read or just make how the rules & send to the list? That was the main reason I joined Chip's list. When I read what he wrote on The Union Co site, I automatically liked it! LOL I figured I wouldn't be getting all those posts where people gripe when a joke or prayer request was posted!!!! If people on the Scott list start griping over a prayer request for your daughter, we'll back you 100%!!!!!!!! Love & Hugs! Bobbie http://www.geocities.com/grannys_world/ Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift.