i recently had a relative buried on private property and i understand that a special permit was issued to the wife to enable her to do this. however, i would think it is up to the present owner of a property to make the decision to let you have access to it. that's is the advantage we have of using a cemetary that is a member of the association of cemetaries. they have the guarantee of 'keeping up' the grounds, etc. and being open to the public. this sure is a sad situation: not being able to visit the graves. my grandfather, george robert elmore is buried on property that at the time belonged to my uncle. so i understand the situation re; finding out the name of the owner at present. i would like to hear more discussion on this. thank you, peggy