Dear Dean, Thank you for you thoughts. Last year I posted an obituary for a young child on a message board that had recently died. The mother ran across the posting and was not happy, to say the least, at the fact it was on a message board. She emailed me and demanded that I have it removed, which I did. Ever since then, I have been very careful not to post such obituaries, gun shy I guess. In Christ, Melissa Barker