Dear Jeannett, Thank you for your note of encouragement, I really appreciate it. The newspaper today had a total of 4 obituaries and 2 of them were for children, one is an infant, died on the same day he was born and the other was 11 months old. I just think it better to leave them alone, but it's nice to hear others opinions and get some confirmation that my thinking is on the right track. In Christ, Melissa Barker