Baloney!!!!!! My three younger sons were glued to the TV every night during the Vietnam war expecting to see their dad or their oldest brother being killed any night. I finally had to remove the TV and forbid them to go to anybody's house that had TV. During the same time the local Cub Scout Pack refused to admit them because they had no dad. (later a Pack out of our upper case neighborhood took them in). Grieving is a very private matter.... not for public consumption.....I can not even bare the sound of `Taps'..... jerree