My brother-in-law interviewed his grandmothers and a brother and a sister of his grandfathers, who were already dead, about 1965. He gained all the information about their families and their lives that he could but he asked one question which has brought me hours and hours of fun and genealogical productivity. He made a list, with their help, of people they had heard they were kin to--called "Aunt," "Uncle," "Cousin"--but did not know how they were kin. I'm still working on a few, but I have found so much that I would never have latched onto without that little start. Carolyn