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    1. [TNMONTGO-L] E-mail address of Montgo Co. Archieves Records
    2. Deanna Oklepek
    3. Our e-mail address is [email protected] The mailing address is Montgomery County Archives, P. O. Box 323, Clarksville, TN 37041-0323 and the phone is 931.553.5159. For research requests, we will search a ten year period in one record group, for one surname for a $5.00 search fee. Please mail your check to the address above and e-mail the request so we can be working on it. Jill Montgomery County Archives

    03/25/2001 09:15:18
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] montgomery co archives
    2. theshadow
    3. Hi Folks, I'd like to "second" what Robbie has written here about the folks at the Archives---especially Jill. Jill and her staff members are truly dedicated to helping researchers find their "roots" and they work diligently to preserve the history of Montgomery Co. as well as any other history with which they come into contact. They have been of immeasurable help to me and they definitely do not make enough money for all the work they do!<LOL> Just wanted to "put my oar in" to let everyone know how great these folks are. Jean Hancock in TX ----- Original Message ----- From: <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Sunday, March 25, 2001 6:00 AM Subject: Re: [TNMONTGO-L] montgomery co archives The hours are 8 to 4. Except they are close on holidays. It is a wonderful place to do research, and the people are really helpful, in helping you to find information on ancestors. Robbie Clarksville, Tenn ______________________________

    03/25/2001 08:20:41
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Descendants of Stephen Bogard
    2. I am looking for additions and corrections to this line -- Tim Descendants of Stephen Bogard Generation No. 1 1.  STEPHEN1 BOGARD was born Abt. 1821 in Montgomery County, Tennessee, and died Abt. 1858 in Stewart County, Tennessee.  He married NANCY JACKSON November 11, 1840 in Stewart County, Tennessee, daughter of ROBERT JACKSON and MARTHA.  She was born February 22, 1825 in Stewart County, Tennessee, and died March 02, 1884 in Stewart County, Tennessee.     Children of STEPHEN BOGARD and NANCY JACKSON are: 2.  i.  JOHN ROBERT2 BOGARD, b. Abt. 1847, Stewart County, Tennessee. 3.  ii. AREZELLA BOGARD, b. May 19, 1851, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. August 01, 1937, Stewart County, Tennessee.     iii.    ANDREW BOGARD, b. 1853, Tennessee; m. ELIZABETH E.; b. 1858, Tennessee. Generation No. 2 2.  JOHN ROBERT2 BOGARD (STEPHEN1) was born Abt. 1847 in Stewart County, Tennessee.  He married EMALINE RALLS.  She was born 1846 in Tennessee.     Children of JOHN BOGARD and EMALINE RALLS are:     i.  ELIZABETH3 BOGARD, b. Abt. 1865, Stewart County, Tennessee.     ii. JOHN CALVIN BOGARD, b. Abt. 1867, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. 1939, Dover, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. MARY JANE ELLIOTT, January 06, 1886, Stewart County, Tennessee; b. 1870; d. 1957.     iii.    SCOTT C. BOGARD, b. Abt. 1869; m. ROXIA TAYLOR, December 18, 1892, Stewart County, Tennessee.     iv. SARAH BOGARD, b. Abt. 1872.     v.  NANCY BOGARD, b. Abt. 1874; m. (1) ? TAYLOR; m. (2) JAMES S. WELKER.     vi. WILLIAM WALTER BOGARD, b. May 24, 1876, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. November 11, 1954, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. (1) CALLIE ROSS; b. November 22, 1889; d. September 06, 1915; m. (2) KATIE PAGE, 1917, Stewart County, Tennessee; b. October 21, 1898, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. July 13, 1993, Stewart County, Tennessee.     vii.    ROBERT BOGARD, b. 1878, Stewart County, Tennessee.     viii.   EDWARD L. BOGARD, b. November 02, 1883; d. March 18, 1940, Cadiz, Trigg County, Kentucky.     ix. DAISY BOGARD, b. 1882, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. 1933, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. ALVIN R. STIMPSON, December 01, 1901; b. January 02, 1881, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. July 17, 1962, Bumpus Mills, Stewart County, Tennessee. 3.  AREZELLA2 BOGARD (STEPHEN1) was born May 19, 1851 in Stewart County, Tennessee, and died August 01, 1937 in Stewart County, Tennessee.  She married GEORGE WILSON TAYLOR, SR. December 08, 1866 in Stewart County, Tennessee.  He was born May 27, 1845 in Stewart County, Tennessee, and died January 08, 1929 in Stew'.     Children of AREZELLA BOGARD and GEORGE TAYLOR are:     i.  PINKNEY M.3 TAYLOR, b. October 19, 1868, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. May 28, 1910, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. NINA WORTHAM, September 03, 1898; b. November 1882, Tennessee.     ii. MALINDA TAYLOR, b. May 09, 1870, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. May 03, 1872, Stewart County, Tennessee.     iii.    KATIE TAYLOR, b. May 09, 1872, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. July 07, 1952, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. MELVIN B. WALLACE, September 08, 1889, Stewart County, Tennessee; b. February 26, 1871, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. June 06, 1945.     iv. JAMES ARTHUR TAYLOR, b. July 1875, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. December 30, 1963, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. MANAZIA JURETHIA PANOLA ALTHEA WALLACE, January 29, 1898, Stewart County, Tennessee; b. April 1879, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. 1939, Stewart County, Tennessee.     v.  GEORGE WILSON TAYLOR, JR., b. June 04, 1876, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. LOUISA D.; b. 1884, Tennessee.     vi. ALBERT TAYLOR, b. Abt. 1878, Stewart County, Tennessee.     vii.    ADDIE F. TAYLOR, b. November 1881, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. 1925, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. K. HARMON JACKSON, October 24, 1900; b. 1878; d. June 09, 1922.     viii.   ALBUM WASHINGTON TAYLOR, b. February 25, 1884, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. March 02, 1964, Middletown, Butler County, Ohio; m. DORA J. FORD, February 07, 1906, Stewart County, Tennessee; b. July 01, 1884, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. October 15, 1965, Middletown, Butler County, Ohio.     ix. MENTIE SYLVESTER TAYLOR, b. December 26, 1889, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. September 21, 1952, Tennessee; m. ISAAC CHESTER STIMPSON, November 21, 1909, Stewart County, Tennessee; b. February 1891, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. 1961.     x.  MEMORY TAYLOR, b. March 1892, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. THOMAS FORD, January 16, 1911.     xi. MINNIE R. TAYLOR, b. January 01, 1892, Tennessee; d. January 1989, Dover, Stewart County, Tennessee; m. NEWELL CLEVELAND STIMPSON; b. October 01, 1892, Stewart County, Tennessee; d. June 1969, Bumpus Mills, Stewart County, Tennessee.

    03/25/2001 02:32:47
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] montgomery co archives
    2. The hours are 8 to 4. Except they are close on holidays. It is a wonderful place to do research, and the people are really helpful, in helping you to find information on ancestors. Robbie Clarksville, Tenn

    03/25/2001 12:00:07
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] Montgomery Co Old Cemetary...help needed
    2. Jerry Johnson
    3. Hey Lori, I heard a while back that the Tolar Cemetary is off Lake road on private property in Woodlawn. I'm not sure where, but I have a relative or two buried there as well. Jerry Johnson >From: [email protected] >Reply-To: [email protected] >To: [email protected] >Subject: [TNMONTGO-L] Montgomery Co Old Cemetary...help needed >Date: Sat, 24 Mar 2001 22:17:21 EST > >We are looking for the location of Tolar Cemetary. We know that my >husband`s >grandmother, Idella Jackson was buried there in 1955. I have her obit and >death certificate. We believe her husband and 2 sons may also be there. >She >was buried from the Woodlawn Methodist Church on Dover Rd. Wiseman Funeral >Home officiated. Is the Funeral home still in existence? >The Tolar Cemetary was located in Woodlawn on Route 2. Is it now on >private >property? Any help would be greatly appreciated!! We will be visiting the >area for the first time for a reunion in June and would like to be able to >visit the cemetary. We are bringing my father-in-law and would like to be >able to take him to his parents` gravesite. > >Thanks in advance for ANY help at all! > >Lori Jackson >Cleveland, Oh > >[email protected] > _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com

    03/24/2001 05:36:12
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] montgomery co archives
    2. Could someone please send me the address of the montgomery co archives and summer (June) hours? Thanks in advance. Lori Jackson Cleveland, OH

    03/24/2001 03:36:11
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Montgomery Co Old Cemetary...help needed
    2. We are looking for the location of Tolar Cemetary. We know that my husband`s grandmother, Idella Jackson was buried there in 1955. I have her obit and death certificate. We believe her husband and 2 sons may also be there. She was buried from the Woodlawn Methodist Church on Dover Rd. Wiseman Funeral Home officiated. Is the Funeral home still in existence? The Tolar Cemetary was located in Woodlawn on Route 2. Is it now on private property? Any help would be greatly appreciated!! We will be visiting the area for the first time for a reunion in June and would like to be able to visit the cemetary. We are bringing my father-in-law and would like to be able to take him to his parents` gravesite. Thanks in advance for ANY help at all! Lori Jackson Cleveland, Oh [email protected]

    03/24/2001 03:17:21
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Looking for football pictures
    2. Frances Osburn
    3. Hi Listers- A new football building is being built behind Clarksville High School and they are looking for football pictures. The older the pictures the better. If you have any of these pictures you would like to share a copy of please contact Sandra Stacey at [email protected] Let's get out those old albums and picture boxes and see if we can fill the walls of Clarksville High School with their school's football history. Frances

    03/24/2001 01:33:15
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] Fw: HAYSE-HAYS/PATTERSON/ETHERIDGE
    2. Sandra Ellis
    3. Natalia, I'd be interested in knowing something about your daughter-in-law's Hays line---my g-grandmother was a Hayes. The Hayes family information in Geneva Swain's collection on the Montgomery County web site is my family. Geneva got some of her information from my great aunt (Bertie Lee Hayes Wilyard). Sandy Ellis

    03/24/2001 12:52:46
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] Fw: HAYSE-HAYS/PATTERSON/ETHERIDGE
    2. Natalia Ayers
    3. Hi Sandy, I forwarded this to my daughter-in-law who is part of the Hays family to see if she is related or not. Her family comes from Natshville/Clarksville so it may be. Natalia Ayers ----- Original Message ----- From: "Sandra Ellis" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Saturday, March 24, 2001 8:40 AM Subject: [TNMONTGO-L] Fw: HAYSE-HAYS/PATTERSON/ETHERIDGE I received this message and got the lady's permission to forward it hoping to make some contacts for her. Sandy Ellis ****************************************************** Hello, I found your names on the SURNAME list for Dickson Co. TN. I am interested in information on any of the HAYSE families of Dickson, but I know sometimes it was spelled HAYS. [ HAYS is another of my lines from Lincoln and Marshall Counties TN] Katherine HAYSE married to John (or James) Patterson were my great great grandparents. Would you please reply to me a the following address? < [email protected] > Thanks, Carol D. Monroe Amarillo, TX From: <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Subject: Re: HAYES Date: Saturday, March 24, 2001 2:20 AM Sandy, Thank you for such a speedy reply. The one date I can build on is the birth date of Mary Jane Patterson the daughter of John (James) Patterson and Katie Hayse. Mary Jane was born 21 Sept 1830, and appears to be the first born. (She died 11 Aug 1914. in McNairy County). Census* I find say she was born in Alabama. James, born in GA and TN and Catherine, born in TN. I would estimate that James was born abt. 1805-1810. Katie may have not been more than 16-20 years older than her daughter. It does not take a lot of paper to tell what I have from my mother's written records. John and Katie Hayse Patterson were mother's Great grandparents. She wrote: John T (or W.) Patterson m. Katherine "Katie" Hayse. Then she noted in Tennessee records he is called James. Their Children were: Mary Jane Patterson m. Mason Dixon Etheridge Hugh Patterson Dock Patterson Green Patterson Enoch Patterson m. first Piney Peeples and second Lizzie Plunk. She then gave the children and grandchildren of Enoch which I will give you at another time. This about covers the PATTERSON written account. She made the usual mis slips in writing, but I think her information was basically correct. Mother has a very deep sense of "Family". She was born in the home of her grandmother, Mary Jane Patterson Etheridge. From time to time her parents and she lived with Mary Jane up to age 15, when they moved to Oklahoma. A sister just younger than mother was named Katie Hayse. No where in written record does she mention that John'/James' mother was Indian, but she did tell me we have Indian blood through the Etheridg/Patterson line. My mother had the long straight raven-black hair. According to a biography (written by a descendant of Enoch) in the McNairy Co., history REFLECTIONS, James' parents were John Patterson and Winnie, a Choctaw Indian. Mary Jane and Dixon's youngest daughter was named WINNIE. * These Census give several more children than had recorded. I am working with another woman on this line. I some times think we are looking at two different people. I will go into that another time. I do have additional information on my Mary Jane. I have a tin type of her and a picture of her and several members of her family made in 1900. I'll be happy to share anything I might have that would be of interest to you. As you will notice it is after 2 AM. I will send this on and hope it makes some sense to you. Again -Thank you, Carol

    03/24/2001 04:53:29
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] Remember When......
    2. Amen completely to the 62 year old lament of today's problems!

    03/24/2001 03:33:32
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Fw: HAYSE-HAYS/PATTERSON/ETHERIDGE
    2. Sandra Ellis
    3. I received this message and got the lady's permission to forward it hoping to make some contacts for her. Sandy Ellis ****************************************************** Hello, I found your names on the SURNAME list for Dickson Co. TN. I am interested in information on any of the HAYSE families of Dickson, but I know sometimes it was spelled HAYS. [ HAYS is another of my lines from Lincoln and Marshall Counties TN] Katherine HAYSE married to John (or James) Patterson were my great great grandparents. Would you please reply to me a the following address? < [email protected] > Thanks, Carol D. Monroe Amarillo, TX From: <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Subject: Re: HAYES Date: Saturday, March 24, 2001 2:20 AM Sandy, Thank you for such a speedy reply. The one date I can build on is the birth date of Mary Jane Patterson the daughter of John (James) Patterson and Katie Hayse. Mary Jane was born 21 Sept 1830, and appears to be the first born. (She died 11 Aug 1914. in McNairy County). Census* I find say she was born in Alabama. James, born in GA and TN and Catherine, born in TN. I would estimate that James was born abt. 1805-1810. Katie may have not been more than 16-20 years older than her daughter. It does not take a lot of paper to tell what I have from my mother's written records. John and Katie Hayse Patterson were mother's Great grandparents. She wrote: John T (or W.) Patterson m. Katherine "Katie" Hayse. Then she noted in Tennessee records he is called James. Their Children were: Mary Jane Patterson m. Mason Dixon Etheridge Hugh Patterson Dock Patterson Green Patterson Enoch Patterson m. first Piney Peeples and second Lizzie Plunk. She then gave the children and grandchildren of Enoch which I will give you at another time. This about covers the PATTERSON written account. She made the usual mis slips in writing, but I think her information was basically correct. Mother has a very deep sense of "Family". She was born in the home of her grandmother, Mary Jane Patterson Etheridge. From time to time her parents and she lived with Mary Jane up to age 15, when they moved to Oklahoma. A sister just younger than mother was named Katie Hayse. No where in written record does she mention that John'/James' mother was Indian, but she did tell me we have Indian blood through the Etheridg/Patterson line. My mother had the long straight raven-black hair. According to a biography (written by a descendant of Enoch) in the McNairy Co., history REFLECTIONS, James' parents were John Patterson and Winnie, a Choctaw Indian. Mary Jane and Dixon's youngest daughter was named WINNIE. * These Census give several more children than had recorded. I am working with another woman on this line. I some times think we are looking at two different people. I will go into that another time. I do have additional information on my Mary Jane. I have a tin type of her and a picture of her and several members of her family made in 1900. I'll be happy to share anything I might have that would be of interest to you. As you will notice it is after 2 AM. I will send this on and hope it makes some sense to you. Again -Thank you, Carol

    03/24/2001 02:40:46
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Lee
    2. JODY BOYD
    3. I just went to the site and I see a LEE family notebook. I have some of the same names in my tree. I am wondering if anyone knows who that is and how I may contact them? JODY BOYD

    03/23/2001 04:31:01
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] Lee
    2. Debbie McMinn
    3. Hi Jody, The Lee Notebook was done by Geneva Swain who is deceased. She collected alot of information on families of Montgomery Co. She didnt have any children and left her books and research to a cousin Carroll Ellis who was nice enough to donate it to the Archives. It is possible there is more to the notebook I know Sandra wasnt able to scan everything. You might check with the Archives for more info. Debbie >From: "JODY BOYD" <[email protected]> >Reply-To: [email protected] >To: [email protected] >Subject: [TNMONTGO-L] Lee >Date: Fri, 23 Mar 2001 23:31:01 -0800 > >I just went to the site and I see a LEE family notebook. I have some of the >same names in my tree. I am wondering if anyone knows who that is and how I >may contact them? > JODY BOYD > > > _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com

    03/23/2001 03:58:08
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Holman/Holeman
    2. Hello, Are there any Holman/Holeman researchers in Montgomery County? Found a William on 1798 tax list and an Isaac who was born 1810 and died 1861. Would appreciate exchanging Holman/Holeman information. Thank you. Linda Holman Swansson [email protected]

    03/22/2001 05:32:33
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] DORITY,STONE,LYLE,TIGERT,WOOTEN,SCUDDER,SHEPERD,ELLIS
    2. Jeff: Thanks, that's my people buried there. How are the Blackards connected to the Scudders? I would love to have any information. Mary

    03/22/2001 02:37:35
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] DORITY,STONE,LYLE,TIGERT,WOOTEN,SCUDDER,SHEPERD,ELLIS
    2. Mary...Saw Scudder in your title line. The Blackard family is related to the Scudder's through marriage. I ran across several Scudder graves in Little Hope Bapt Church in Montgomery County, TN Jeff Burton Nashville, TN

    03/22/2001 02:27:50
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] DORITY,STONE,LYLE,TIGERT,WOOTEN,SCUDDER,SHEPERD,ELLIS
    2. I need information regarding the parents of Mary Elizabeth STONE, born Apr 1830 in Tn. or Ky. She married Thomas Matthew DORITY on 21 Jul 1851, Montgomery County, Tn. Mary was reportedly born to a full blooded Cherokee mother on an Indian Reservation. Thomas and Mary had the following children, all born in Montgomery County, Tn.: 1) John W. DORITY born @1852, died 25 Dec 1893, Montgomery County, Tn. Married #1Nancy Florence STONE on 13 Jan 1885, Montgomery County, Tn #2 Dollie STONE. 2) Elizabeth "Bettie" DORITY born @1854, married Epps Lucus LYLE on 24 Dec 1873, Montgomery County, Tn. 3) Samuel DORITY born @1856, married Telitha "Lettie" HUDSON on 22 Nov 1884, Montgomery County. 4) Annie Frances "Frankey" DORITY, born Mar 1858, died 27 Oct 1931, married John Henry SCUDDER on 10 Aug 1883, Montgomery County, Tn. 5) Nancy DORITY born @1863, married Robert H. WOOTEN on 15 Feb 1864, Montgomery County, Tn. 6) Agnes "Aggie" DORITY born Aug 1864, married Thomas H. TIGERT on 8 Apr 1882, Montgomery County, Tn. 7) Thomas Matthew DORITY born 26 Feb 1866, died 28 May 1944, married Addie SHEPHERD in 1899, Montgomery County, Tn. 8) Charles A. DORITY born Apr 1867, married Florence ???. 9) Robert DORITY born @1873, married Willie ELLIS on 16 Aug 1893, Montgomery County,Tn. Anyone else researching any part of this family? Mary L. Solomon

    03/22/2001 10:01:48
    1. Re: [TNMONTGO-L] Remember When......
    2. bzbee
    3. Wonderful!!! How I wish it was still like that!! [email protected] wrote: > > One evening a son was talking to his father about current events. He > > asked what he thought about the shootings at schools, the computer age, > > and just things in general. > > > > The dad replied, "Well, let me think a minute . . . I was born before > > television, penicillin, polio shots, frozen foods, Xerox, contact lenses, > > Frisbees and the pill. > > > > There was no radar, credit cards, laser beams or ballpoint pens. > > > > Man had not invented pantyhose, dishwashers, clothes dryers, (clothes were > > > > hung out to dry in the fresh air) electric blankets, air conditioners, and > > > > he hadn't walked on the moon. > > > > Your Mom and I got married first-and then lived together. Every family > > had > > a father and a mother, and every boy over 14 had a rifle that his dad > > taught > > him how to use and respect. And they went hunting and fishing together. > > > > Until I was 25, I called every man older than I, 'Sir' - and after I > > turned > > 25, I still called policemen and every man with a title, 'Sir.' > > > > Sundays were set aside for going to church as a family, helping those in > > need, and visiting with family or neighbors. (I miss that most). We were > > before, computer-dating, dual careers, daycare centers, and group therapy. > > > > > > The Ten Commandments, good judgment, and common sense governed our lives. > > We were taught to know the difference between right and wrong and to stand > > > > up and take responsibility for our actions. Serving your country was a > > privilege; living here was a bigger privilege. > > > > We thought fast food was what people ate during Lent. > > > > Having a meaningful relationship meant getting along with your cousins. > > > > Draft dodgers were people who closed their front doors when the evening > > breeze started. > > > > Time-sharing meant time the family spent together in the evenings and > > weekends - not purchasing condominiums. > > > > We never heard of FM radios, tape decks, CDs, electric typewriters, > > yogurt, > > or guys wearing earrings. > > > > We listened to the Big Bands, Jack Benny, and the President's speeches on > > our radio. And I don't ever remember any kid blowing his brains out > > listening to Tommy Dorsey. > > > > If you saw anything with 'Made in Japan' on it, it was junk. The term > > 'making out' referred to how you did on your school exam. Pizza Hut, > > McDonald's, and instant coffee were unheard of. > > > > We had 5 & 10-cent stores where you could actually buy things for 5 and 10 > > > > cents. An ice cream cone, phone calls, rides on a streetcar, and a Pepsi > > were all a nickel. And if you didn't want to splurge, you could spend > > your > > nickel on enough stamps to mail 1 letter and 2 postcards. > > > > You could buy a new Chevy Coupe for $600, but who could afford one? Too > > bad > > because gas was 11 cents a gallon. > > > > In my day, 'grass' was mowed, 'coke' was a cold drink, 'pot' was something > > > > your mother cooked in, and 'rock music' was your grandmother's lullaby. > > > > 'Aids' were helpers in the Principal's office, 'chip' meant a piece of > > wood,'hardware' was found in a hardware store, and 'software' wasn't even > > a > > word. > > > > And we were the last generation to actually believe that a lady needed a > > husband to have a baby. > > > > No wonder people call us "old and confused" and say there is a generation > > > > gap... > > > > and I am only 62 years old. > > __________ > > > >

    03/22/2001 12:44:12
    1. [TNMONTGO-L] Remember When......
    2. > One evening a son was talking to his father about current events. He > asked what he thought about the shootings at schools, the computer age, > and just things in general. > > The dad replied, "Well, let me think a minute . . . I was born before > television, penicillin, polio shots, frozen foods, Xerox, contact lenses, > Frisbees and the pill. > > There was no radar, credit cards, laser beams or ballpoint pens. > > Man had not invented pantyhose, dishwashers, clothes dryers, (clothes were > > hung out to dry in the fresh air) electric blankets, air conditioners, and > > he hadn't walked on the moon. > > Your Mom and I got married first-and then lived together. Every family > had > a father and a mother, and every boy over 14 had a rifle that his dad > taught > him how to use and respect. And they went hunting and fishing together. > > Until I was 25, I called every man older than I, 'Sir' - and after I > turned > 25, I still called policemen and every man with a title, 'Sir.' > > Sundays were set aside for going to church as a family, helping those in > need, and visiting with family or neighbors. (I miss that most). We were > before, computer-dating, dual careers, daycare centers, and group therapy. > > > The Ten Commandments, good judgment, and common sense governed our lives. > We were taught to know the difference between right and wrong and to stand > > up and take responsibility for our actions. Serving your country was a > privilege; living here was a bigger privilege. > > We thought fast food was what people ate during Lent. > > Having a meaningful relationship meant getting along with your cousins. > > Draft dodgers were people who closed their front doors when the evening > breeze started. > > Time-sharing meant time the family spent together in the evenings and > weekends - not purchasing condominiums. > > We never heard of FM radios, tape decks, CDs, electric typewriters, > yogurt, > or guys wearing earrings. > > We listened to the Big Bands, Jack Benny, and the President's speeches on > our radio. And I don't ever remember any kid blowing his brains out > listening to Tommy Dorsey. > > If you saw anything with 'Made in Japan' on it, it was junk. The term > 'making out' referred to how you did on your school exam. Pizza Hut, > McDonald's, and instant coffee were unheard of. > > We had 5 & 10-cent stores where you could actually buy things for 5 and 10 > > cents. An ice cream cone, phone calls, rides on a streetcar, and a Pepsi > were all a nickel. And if you didn't want to splurge, you could spend > your > nickel on enough stamps to mail 1 letter and 2 postcards. > > You could buy a new Chevy Coupe for $600, but who could afford one? Too > bad > because gas was 11 cents a gallon. > > In my day, 'grass' was mowed, 'coke' was a cold drink, 'pot' was something > > your mother cooked in, and 'rock music' was your grandmother's lullaby. > > 'Aids' were helpers in the Principal's office, 'chip' meant a piece of > wood,'hardware' was found in a hardware store, and 'software' wasn't even > a > word. > > And we were the last generation to actually believe that a lady needed a > husband to have a baby. > > No wonder people call us "old and confused" and say there is a generation > > gap... > > and I am only 62 years old. > __________ > >

    03/21/2001 05:16:37