AMEN!!! Carole, Appreciated your input and feel the same. If ones does not share, one could stay in the same spot for twenty years looking for a clue. I use one rule in sharing. If it's misused I don't enter anymore information! In saying that, I mean selling what I've found instead of sharing what I've have found. My most difficult moments have been working with folks who are interested in your information and promise to get back to you with their data. After entering my data, I never hear from them again. I have their names posted to my computer under "looking for info, will not share". I believe one can ascertain the gatherers from the ones who will share. "Thank You" is worth its weight in gold and sharing what they have gives me more information to work with. Pat