Just received the e-mail about lost gravestones, and it happened in Lincoln, Nebraska. Not only do gravestones get lost, but my uncle's 3rd wife found the ashes of the 2nd wife in the trunk of his car after he died. My cousins were looking for their mother, and found the death certificate dated 1996, and went to Denver, Colorado, to find more information. They found her ashes, in 2005, still on the shelf, after cremation. I guess it pays to keep searching. Penny Koch - Nebraska