Rachel, for directions to cemeteries, you might try calling one of the funeral directors in Lexington, TN, the one I know about is Pafford. Also, companies that make grave markers, monuments, might be of some assistance. To find telephone numbers, try an Internet yellow pages, I use www.switchboard.com.. Also, in the Henderson Co. TN Courthouse, downstairs in Tax Assessors office, most cemeteries in Henderson Co. TN are shown on large sheets of paper, the sheets are about the size of blueprints that are done for buildings or a bit bigger. These sheets might be called surveyor maps. I don't know the technical term for them but they are huge. Maybe worth a visit if all else fails. My suggestion, take a pair of boots in case the ground is soggy. Linda