Hello All Happy Monday to you! This past weekend, I made a trip to Illinois (I live in Mpls, MN) to do some family research in cemeteries. My main reason for going was to place flowers at my grandmother's grave site because her (86th) birthday was March 24. While there, I made a decision to put a down-payment on a granite headstone for her. Since her death in 1982, no one has taken the initiative to purchase one. So, I did. The reason I'm writing is that my mother, my grandmother's only child, does not know that I did this and I would like to know from "listers" what you think and what would you do?? Should I have consulted wit ______________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com