Hey Ms. Millie, And Happy Thanksgiving to you and all Tennessee Fentress Site members. I too was in that way of wanting to ask the why's, where's, when's and so on. But in the last couple of years have learned to respect some of those sworn to secret to the grave in the name of "Protective Love" things that went on in our kin' days. Yes, I still look for dates of marriages, births, deaths, cemeteries, and those Beloved pictures. But I am content with not pulling the stories of old apart anymore. I have learned there were reasons for their silence. And I have decided for me at least, it is best to honor that. I would love a Thanksgiving where all the kin could be together again just to enjoy, share, laugh and love each other for who we are. I am so thankful for my kin, friends and this great country which is an honored to live in, and for all the help I have received from this site in looking for my family. You all have been very good to me. I truly wish all a very Happy and Safe Thanksgiving. Patty