Cher, I am fairly new to the list, just less than a year, but my heart goes out to you. You have truely had more than your share. I hope the traveling will help you to relax, and get back on your feet. You deserve all the time and enjoyment you can possibly find. Keep us posted on your progress. Pat Durham McRae, in Indiana Researching: TRIMBLE, IVY, ELDER, HALL, FUSSELL, DURHAM, THOMPSON, and FLORA in TN & GA