In a message dated 9/3/98 9:58:15 AM Central Daylight Time, [email protected] writes: << I would either sign off or offer to help the list owner if I was unhappy. It only takes a second to delete the message, the title of which is very clear. >> I for one appreciate the reminders because I put too much time already into my latest addiction, genealogy, and I'm afraid not to open emails with no clear reference to a surname ... but I've learned not to waste my time s they seem NEVER to pertain to me and I get irritated and life is too short for that. Yea SgtGeoge! Sharon