Excuse me for the interuption here- but this is an email LIST.... therefore, any of your "emails" are getting sent to the hundreds of people that are subscribed to this list. Everybody here is reading this- if you guys wanted to keep it between yourselves- you should have privately emailed each other or who ever it was intended for. Screaming about a suggeston that was NOT directed to you - but rather to the admin of this list- is not a solution. And the hundreds of people who subscribe to this list do not need to read the two of you argueing. This is about genealogy research- and finding distant relatives- of which I have many that are subscribed on this list- and some whom have not. Can we get back to the main subject at hand, if neither of you object? Thank you.