Go for it. I am sick of all the negative posts, too. I posted because there was a suggestion that because people didn't post their condolences for Don Kelly to this list, that no one cared. I cared and still do. I saw other people who posted after me that cared. This is not politics. I don't do politics anymore for this very reason. You can't care about anyone without someone ascribing ulterior motives to it. I care about you, Jan. We were friends and I still consider you one. If you don't consider me one, that is your loss not mine. My circle is big enough to take you in no matter what size yours is. I do genealogy. I care. You and Linda need to quit trying to tell me how I feel or why I do something. You don't know . . . obviously! Betsy