Neal: sorry to hear about your son. I have the feeling my grandson might end up like your son and do things that are no legal. How old is your son? We put our grandson in the NAVY Sea Cadets. An organization for 13-18 years old. They do go to boot camp for 2 weeks and monthly meetings. He is 15 now, but did change quite a bit last summer after the boot camp. By the way, our thought and prayers are with you and your family. Just have faith, things happen and we do not know why so keep talking about what you are feeling. Carol W. email address is: carol92341@aol