Hi Jen, I am sorry that you haven't been able to find her. Sometimes when you type in a name it comes up with their death notice or something saying that they had died or some information. I typed a friends name in google-it says that she had died in 1991-I am trying to get ahold of her husband, can't find him right now. So you didn't find any information on her - no death notice or anything like that? I pray that she didn't do drugs. People do change. I have changed a lot from when I was in my 20's. I had a lot of anger inside me. We moved to Ames, Iowa and I found several really good friends. One, the lady across the street, an ex-nun-she helped me through so much. Another lady that lives up the street she has also helped me. I believe that GOD led me here. I believe that HE leads you to where you are suppose to go. Gotta run for now. Shorty > From: AZJen@npgcable.com > To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > Date: Wed, 8 Sep 2010 23:50:35 -0700 > Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > > Hi Shorty, > > I do not know if she has married. You see, she wanted to marry my sister's > husband & she felt that my sister stole him away from her. > > Her maiden name was Carolyn Kuhl Tyler & I cannot tell you the number of > places I have looked for her...Google, all sorts of places on the web. I > even put out a missing person's report on her. > > I doubt if I will ever find her again. I had one gal claim that she had > found her in either CA or FL. She gave me a phone number to call b/c she > said that Carolyn would have to agree to talk to me. Well, I never heard > from her...so I don't know whether or not this was the real person. > > I don't know how this person found her. They had a married name. Then I > guess she was divorced & all this seemed to go around & around. > > My sister has always told me that her husband said that Carolyn was into > drugs & I simply cannot believe that. Dick, who died 4/4/10, supposedly > said that she was probably dead. > > ~J > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> > To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Wednesday, September 08, 2010 5:03 AM > Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > > > > > > Hi Jen, > > > > Do you know what Carolyn's married name is, that is if she got married? > > If you know her full name maybe type it into Google and see what you come > > up with. That is how I find some friends. When we lived in Illinois-I > > prayed so hard that I would find a really good friend. The LORD answered > > my prayers. > > > > Blessings, > > > > Shorty > > > >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com > >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > >> Date: Sun, 5 Sep 2010 23:15:17 -0700 > >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > >> Hi Shorty, > >> > >> Had a dear Big Sister in my college sorority. She bought me a ring with > >> two > >> hands clasped together. When you opened up the hands, there was a heart. > >> I > >> really cared about my Big Sister so much..but things happened beyond my > >> control & I have lost track of her. It's a long story, so I won't got > >> into > >> it..but I would love to get in touch with Carolyn again. Carolyn also > >> gave > >> me a gold charm bracelet & any time there was a special occasion, she > >> would > >> give me a square charm with the occasion engraved on the square. I > >> really > >> miss her & wish I could find her again. It has been many years though, > >> so > >> the chances of me finding her are very slight. Someone thought they had > >> found her in FL b/c she had posted an address in an alumni book which we > >> all > >> received from Hillsdale College, in Hillsdale, MI. By the time I got a > >> letter off to her, she had either moved or refused to accept my letter. > >> I > >> got it back. Makes me feel very badly at times when I think of her & not > >> being able to find her again. > >> > >> ~Jen in AZ > >> ----- Original Message ----- > >> From: "jkaywojack" <jkaywojack@aol.com> > >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> > >> Sent: Sunday, September 05, 2010 6:37 PM > >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > >> > >> > Yes, Shorty, friendship is a blessing, but they take work to cultivate. > >> > Kay > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > In a message dated 09/03/10 22:39:51 Central Daylight Time, > >> > shorty6337@hotmail.com writes: > >> > > >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com > >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com > >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. > >> > > >> > Thank you for the welcome to > >> > southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. We moved here from Aurora, > >> > Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I received a bracelet, from a real > >> > good friend, that has writing on it the words are: FRIENDSHIP IS A > >> > PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a blessed message. > >> > > >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com > >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com > >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. > >> > > >> > Thank you for the welcome to southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. We > >> > moved here from Aurora, Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I received > >> > a > >> > bracelet, from a real good friend, that has writing on it the words > >> > are: > >> > FRIENDSHIP IS A PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a blessed > >> > message. > >> > > >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 09:58:20 -0700 > >> > From: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com > >> > Subject: Fw: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > To: shorty6337@hotmail.com > >> > > >> > How sweet and I welcome you to southern chat. i live in oklahoma > >> > and have been moving so just lurking when i have time. > >> > luv ya > >> > ladonna > >> > > >> > --- On Fri, 9/3/10, Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> wrote: > >> > > >> > > >> > From: Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> > >> > Subject: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > >> > Date: Friday, September 3, 2010, 7:52 AM > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > The > >> > lady reading this is beautiful, classy and Strong and I love her. Help > >> > her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause her to > >> > excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest places > >> > where > >> > it is impossible to love. Protect her at all times, lift her up...when > >> > she needs you the most,....and..............Let > >> > her know when she walks with you, She will always be safe. Love you, > >> > Now, you're on the clock!!!! In 9 minutes something will make you > >> > happy.. But you have to tell 9 Sisters you love them, including me. > >> > Go!!!! > >> > Blessings > >> > > >> > Anna Marie > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > ------------------------------- > >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> > the > >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > ------------------------------- > >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> > the > >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> > > >> > ------------------------------- > >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> > the > >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> > >> > >> ------------------------------- > >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > > > > ------------------------------- > > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Shorty, I always have it in my head that I'm going to find her some day. I understand why she felt the way she did..but I had absolutely nothing to do with how things worked out. Every once in a while, I will check to see if I can find her again; however, things just do not match up. She would be around 67 or 68 yrs old today. I just hope that she has found happiness in whatever direction she has taken in her life. I know that she transferred from the college that we had been in together shortly after I left. (That's when I had transferred to Ames.) I have written to the University of WI in Madison to inquire if they had a student by that name up there & so far, they say they never had anyone up there by her name. Like you, I really hope she was not into drugs. I cannot see her doing that sort of thing; however, I guess people can change. She was pretty broken up after her boyfriend married my sister. If for no other reason, I would like to get in touch with her so I could tell her that Dick has passed away. I'll get give it more time. I will continue to look. I should go check on the Social Security Death List. However, if Carolyn had married, then she would not be listed under her maiden name, if indeed she had passed away. Thanks for your concern, Shorty & I'm glad you are so at home in Ames. Ames is a beautiful place to live & I know the folks are very special there. ~J ----- Original Message ----- From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2010 5:20 PM Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > > Hi Jen, > > I am sorry that you haven't been able to find her. Sometimes when you > type in a name it comes up with their death notice or something saying > that they had died or some information. I typed a friends name in > google-it says that she had died in 1991-I am trying to get ahold of her > husband, can't find him right now. > > So you didn't find any information on her - no death notice or anything > like that? > > I pray that she didn't do drugs. People do change. I have changed a lot > from when I was in my 20's. I had a lot of anger inside me. We moved to > Ames, Iowa and I found several really good friends. One, the lady across > the street, an ex-nun-she helped me through so much. Another lady that > lives up the street she has also helped me. I believe that GOD led me > here. I believe that HE leads you to where you are suppose to go. > > Gotta run for now. > > Shorty > >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> Date: Wed, 8 Sep 2010 23:50:35 -0700 >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> Hi Shorty, >> >> I do not know if she has married. You see, she wanted to marry my >> sister's >> husband & she felt that my sister stole him away from her. >> >> Her maiden name was Carolyn Kuhl Tyler & I cannot tell you the number of >> places I have looked for her...Google, all sorts of places on the web. I >> even put out a missing person's report on her. >> >> I doubt if I will ever find her again. I had one gal claim that she had >> found her in either CA or FL. She gave me a phone number to call b/c she >> said that Carolyn would have to agree to talk to me. Well, I never heard >> from her...so I don't know whether or not this was the real person. >> >> I don't know how this person found her. They had a married name. Then I >> guess she was divorced & all this seemed to go around & around. >> >> My sister has always told me that her husband said that Carolyn was into >> drugs & I simply cannot believe that. Dick, who died 4/4/10, supposedly >> said that she was probably dead. >> >> ~J >> >> >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> >> Sent: Wednesday, September 08, 2010 5:03 AM >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> > >> > Hi Jen, >> > >> > Do you know what Carolyn's married name is, that is if she got married? >> > If you know her full name maybe type it into Google and see what you >> > come >> > up with. That is how I find some friends. When we lived in Illinois-I >> > prayed so hard that I would find a really good friend. The LORD >> > answered >> > my prayers. >> > >> > Blessings, >> > >> > Shorty >> > >> >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com >> >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> >> Date: Sun, 5 Sep 2010 23:15:17 -0700 >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> >> Hi Shorty, >> >> >> >> Had a dear Big Sister in my college sorority. She bought me a ring >> >> with >> >> two >> >> hands clasped together. When you opened up the hands, there was a >> >> heart. >> >> I >> >> really cared about my Big Sister so much..but things happened beyond >> >> my >> >> control & I have lost track of her. It's a long story, so I won't got >> >> into >> >> it..but I would love to get in touch with Carolyn again. Carolyn also >> >> gave >> >> me a gold charm bracelet & any time there was a special occasion, she >> >> would >> >> give me a square charm with the occasion engraved on the square. I >> >> really >> >> miss her & wish I could find her again. It has been many years >> >> though, >> >> so >> >> the chances of me finding her are very slight. Someone thought they >> >> had >> >> found her in FL b/c she had posted an address in an alumni book which >> >> we >> >> all >> >> received from Hillsdale College, in Hillsdale, MI. By the time I got >> >> a >> >> letter off to her, she had either moved or refused to accept my >> >> letter. >> >> I >> >> got it back. Makes me feel very badly at times when I think of her & >> >> not >> >> being able to find her again. >> >> >> >> ~Jen in AZ >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> >> From: "jkaywojack" <jkaywojack@aol.com> >> >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> >> >> Sent: Sunday, September 05, 2010 6:37 PM >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> >> >> >> > Yes, Shorty, friendship is a blessing, but they take work to >> >> > cultivate. >> >> > Kay >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > In a message dated 09/03/10 22:39:51 Central Daylight Time, >> >> > shorty6337@hotmail.com writes: >> >> > >> >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com >> >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com >> >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. >> >> > >> >> > Thank you for the welcome to >> >> > southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. We moved here from Aurora, >> >> > Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I received a bracelet, from a >> >> > real >> >> > good friend, that has writing on it the words are: FRIENDSHIP IS A >> >> > PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a blessed message. >> >> > >> >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com >> >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com >> >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. >> >> > >> >> > Thank you for the welcome to southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. >> >> > We >> >> > moved here from Aurora, Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I >> >> > received >> >> > a >> >> > bracelet, from a real good friend, that has writing on it the words >> >> > are: >> >> > FRIENDSHIP IS A PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a >> >> > blessed >> >> > message. >> >> > >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 09:58:20 -0700 >> >> > From: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com >> >> > Subject: Fw: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> > To: shorty6337@hotmail.com >> >> > >> >> > How sweet and I welcome you to southern chat. i live in oklahoma >> >> > and have been moving so just lurking when i have time. >> >> > luv ya >> >> > ladonna >> >> > >> >> > --- On Fri, 9/3/10, Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> >> > wrote: >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > From: Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> >> > Subject: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> > To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> >> > Date: Friday, September 3, 2010, 7:52 AM >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > The >> >> > lady reading this is beautiful, classy and Strong and I love her. >> >> > Help >> >> > her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause her >> >> > to >> >> > excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest places >> >> > where >> >> > it is impossible to love. Protect her at all times, lift her >> >> > up...when >> >> > she needs you the most,....and..............Let >> >> > her know when she walks with you, She will always be safe. Love you, >> >> > Now, you're on the clock!!!! In 9 minutes something will make you >> >> > happy.. But you have to tell 9 Sisters you love them, including me. >> >> > Go!!!! >> >> > Blessings >> >> > >> >> > Anna Marie >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> > without >> >> > the >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> > without >> >> > the >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> > >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> > without >> >> > the >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >> >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> > >> > >> > ------------------------------- >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >> > the >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Jen Did Carolyn ever talk about where she was born and raised or any of her siblings? Sometimes you might be able to find her through one of her siblings-unless she was the only child. If I have any other ideas I will email you. Love, Shorty > From: AZJen@npgcable.com > To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > Date: Thu, 9 Sep 2010 23:01:30 -0700 > Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > > Shorty, > > I always have it in my head that I'm going to find her some day. I > understand why she felt the way she did..but I had absolutely nothing to do > with how things worked out. > > Every once in a while, I will check to see if I can find her again; however, > things just do not match up. She would be around 67 or 68 yrs old today. > > I just hope that she has found happiness in whatever direction she has taken > in her life. I know that she transferred from the college that we had been > in together shortly after I left. (That's when I had transferred to Ames.) > I have written to the University of WI in Madison to inquire if they had a > student by that name up there & so far, they say they never had anyone up > there by her name. > > Like you, I really hope she was not into drugs. I cannot see her doing that > sort of thing; however, I guess people can change. She was pretty broken up > after her boyfriend married my sister. > > If for no other reason, I would like to get in touch with her so I could > tell her that Dick has passed away. > > I'll get give it more time. I will continue to look. I should go check on > the Social Security Death List. However, if Carolyn had married, then she > would not be listed under her maiden name, if indeed she had passed away. > > Thanks for your concern, Shorty & I'm glad you are so at home in Ames. Ames > is a beautiful place to live & I know the folks are very special there. > > ~J > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> > To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2010 5:20 PM > Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > > > > > > Hi Jen, > > > > I am sorry that you haven't been able to find her. Sometimes when you > > type in a name it comes up with their death notice or something saying > > that they had died or some information. I typed a friends name in > > google-it says that she had died in 1991-I am trying to get ahold of her > > husband, can't find him right now. > > > > So you didn't find any information on her - no death notice or anything > > like that? > > > > I pray that she didn't do drugs. People do change. I have changed a lot > > from when I was in my 20's. I had a lot of anger inside me. We moved to > > Ames, Iowa and I found several really good friends. One, the lady across > > the street, an ex-nun-she helped me through so much. Another lady that > > lives up the street she has also helped me. I believe that GOD led me > > here. I believe that HE leads you to where you are suppose to go. > > > > Gotta run for now. > > > > Shorty > > > >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com > >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > >> Date: Wed, 8 Sep 2010 23:50:35 -0700 > >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > >> Hi Shorty, > >> > >> I do not know if she has married. You see, she wanted to marry my > >> sister's > >> husband & she felt that my sister stole him away from her. > >> > >> Her maiden name was Carolyn Kuhl Tyler & I cannot tell you the number of > >> places I have looked for her...Google, all sorts of places on the web. I > >> even put out a missing person's report on her. > >> > >> I doubt if I will ever find her again. I had one gal claim that she had > >> found her in either CA or FL. She gave me a phone number to call b/c she > >> said that Carolyn would have to agree to talk to me. Well, I never heard > >> from her...so I don't know whether or not this was the real person. > >> > >> I don't know how this person found her. They had a married name. Then I > >> guess she was divorced & all this seemed to go around & around. > >> > >> My sister has always told me that her husband said that Carolyn was into > >> drugs & I simply cannot believe that. Dick, who died 4/4/10, supposedly > >> said that she was probably dead. > >> > >> ~J > >> > >> > >> > >> ----- Original Message ----- > >> From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> > >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> > >> Sent: Wednesday, September 08, 2010 5:03 AM > >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> > >> > >> > > >> > Hi Jen, > >> > > >> > Do you know what Carolyn's married name is, that is if she got married? > >> > If you know her full name maybe type it into Google and see what you > >> > come > >> > up with. That is how I find some friends. When we lived in Illinois-I > >> > prayed so hard that I would find a really good friend. The LORD > >> > answered > >> > my prayers. > >> > > >> > Blessings, > >> > > >> > Shorty > >> > > >> >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com > >> >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > >> >> Date: Sun, 5 Sep 2010 23:15:17 -0700 > >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> >> > >> >> Hi Shorty, > >> >> > >> >> Had a dear Big Sister in my college sorority. She bought me a ring > >> >> with > >> >> two > >> >> hands clasped together. When you opened up the hands, there was a > >> >> heart. > >> >> I > >> >> really cared about my Big Sister so much..but things happened beyond > >> >> my > >> >> control & I have lost track of her. It's a long story, so I won't got > >> >> into > >> >> it..but I would love to get in touch with Carolyn again. Carolyn also > >> >> gave > >> >> me a gold charm bracelet & any time there was a special occasion, she > >> >> would > >> >> give me a square charm with the occasion engraved on the square. I > >> >> really > >> >> miss her & wish I could find her again. It has been many years > >> >> though, > >> >> so > >> >> the chances of me finding her are very slight. Someone thought they > >> >> had > >> >> found her in FL b/c she had posted an address in an alumni book which > >> >> we > >> >> all > >> >> received from Hillsdale College, in Hillsdale, MI. By the time I got > >> >> a > >> >> letter off to her, she had either moved or refused to accept my > >> >> letter. > >> >> I > >> >> got it back. Makes me feel very badly at times when I think of her & > >> >> not > >> >> being able to find her again. > >> >> > >> >> ~Jen in AZ > >> >> ----- Original Message ----- > >> >> From: "jkaywojack" <jkaywojack@aol.com> > >> >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> > >> >> Sent: Sunday, September 05, 2010 6:37 PM > >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > Yes, Shorty, friendship is a blessing, but they take work to > >> >> > cultivate. > >> >> > Kay > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > In a message dated 09/03/10 22:39:51 Central Daylight Time, > >> >> > shorty6337@hotmail.com writes: > >> >> > > >> >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com > >> >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com > >> >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. > >> >> > > >> >> > Thank you for the welcome to > >> >> > southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. We moved here from Aurora, > >> >> > Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I received a bracelet, from a > >> >> > real > >> >> > good friend, that has writing on it the words are: FRIENDSHIP IS A > >> >> > PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a blessed message. > >> >> > > >> >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com > >> >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com > >> >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. > >> >> > > >> >> > Thank you for the welcome to southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. > >> >> > We > >> >> > moved here from Aurora, Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I > >> >> > received > >> >> > a > >> >> > bracelet, from a real good friend, that has writing on it the words > >> >> > are: > >> >> > FRIENDSHIP IS A PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a > >> >> > blessed > >> >> > message. > >> >> > > >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 09:58:20 -0700 > >> >> > From: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com > >> >> > Subject: Fw: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> >> > To: shorty6337@hotmail.com > >> >> > > >> >> > How sweet and I welcome you to southern chat. i live in oklahoma > >> >> > and have been moving so just lurking when i have time. > >> >> > luv ya > >> >> > ladonna > >> >> > > >> >> > --- On Fri, 9/3/10, Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> > >> >> > wrote: > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > From: Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> > >> >> > Subject: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > >> >> > To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com > >> >> > Date: Friday, September 3, 2010, 7:52 AM > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > The > >> >> > lady reading this is beautiful, classy and Strong and I love her. > >> >> > Help > >> >> > her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause her > >> >> > to > >> >> > excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest places > >> >> > where > >> >> > it is impossible to love. Protect her at all times, lift her > >> >> > up...when > >> >> > she needs you the most,....and..............Let > >> >> > her know when she walks with you, She will always be safe. Love you, > >> >> > Now, you're on the clock!!!! In 9 minutes something will make you > >> >> > happy.. But you have to tell 9 Sisters you love them, including me. > >> >> > Go!!!! > >> >> > Blessings > >> >> > > >> >> > Anna Marie > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > ------------------------------- > >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' > >> >> > without > >> >> > the > >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > ------------------------------- > >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' > >> >> > without > >> >> > the > >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> >> > > >> >> > ------------------------------- > >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' > >> >> > without > >> >> > the > >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> >> > >> >> > >> >> ------------------------------- > >> >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> > > >> > > >> > ------------------------------- > >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> > the > >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > >> > >> > >> ------------------------------- > >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without > >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > > > > ------------------------------- > > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > > quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Yes, I believe she lived in Trenton, NJ for a short time. As far as I know, she has one older sister who it seems was always getting a divorce. When I put out a missing person report on her, I got back a notice from the FBI which said that a Theodore Tyler had been arrested in Ft Meyers, FL. They more or arrest referred to a drug bust..but I never knew anything else. I did write to our best friend, April, who lived in Jackson, FL. She wrote me back & said she hadn't heard from Carolyn for years..didn't even know that Carolyn had been in the Ft. Meyers area. Just in case you are interested, Theodore Tyler was her Father. I do not remember he Mother's name. I have always been interested where she got the middle name of Kuhl from. It had to be a family name. ~J ----- Original Message ----- From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, September 11, 2010 12:26 PM Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re > > Jen > > Did Carolyn ever talk about where she was born and raised or any of her > siblings? Sometimes you might be able to find her through one of her > siblings-unless she was the only child. > > If I have any other ideas I will email you. > > Love, > > Shorty > >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> Date: Thu, 9 Sep 2010 23:01:30 -0700 >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> Shorty, >> >> I always have it in my head that I'm going to find her some day. I >> understand why she felt the way she did..but I had absolutely nothing to >> do >> with how things worked out. >> >> Every once in a while, I will check to see if I can find her again; >> however, >> things just do not match up. She would be around 67 or 68 yrs old today. >> >> I just hope that she has found happiness in whatever direction she has >> taken >> in her life. I know that she transferred from the college that we had >> been >> in together shortly after I left. (That's when I had transferred to >> Ames.) >> I have written to the University of WI in Madison to inquire if they had >> a >> student by that name up there & so far, they say they never had anyone up >> there by her name. >> >> Like you, I really hope she was not into drugs. I cannot see her doing >> that >> sort of thing; however, I guess people can change. She was pretty broken >> up >> after her boyfriend married my sister. >> >> If for no other reason, I would like to get in touch with her so I could >> tell her that Dick has passed away. >> >> I'll get give it more time. I will continue to look. I should go check >> on >> the Social Security Death List. However, if Carolyn had married, then >> she >> would not be listed under her maiden name, if indeed she had passed away. >> >> Thanks for your concern, Shorty & I'm glad you are so at home in Ames. >> Ames >> is a beautiful place to live & I know the folks are very special there. >> >> ~J >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> >> Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2010 5:20 PM >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> > >> > Hi Jen, >> > >> > I am sorry that you haven't been able to find her. Sometimes when you >> > type in a name it comes up with their death notice or something saying >> > that they had died or some information. I typed a friends name in >> > google-it says that she had died in 1991-I am trying to get ahold of >> > her >> > husband, can't find him right now. >> > >> > So you didn't find any information on her - no death notice or anything >> > like that? >> > >> > I pray that she didn't do drugs. People do change. I have changed a >> > lot >> > from when I was in my 20's. I had a lot of anger inside me. We moved >> > to >> > Ames, Iowa and I found several really good friends. One, the lady >> > across >> > the street, an ex-nun-she helped me through so much. Another lady that >> > lives up the street she has also helped me. I believe that GOD led me >> > here. I believe that HE leads you to where you are suppose to go. >> > >> > Gotta run for now. >> > >> > Shorty >> > >> >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com >> >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> >> Date: Wed, 8 Sep 2010 23:50:35 -0700 >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> >> Hi Shorty, >> >> >> >> I do not know if she has married. You see, she wanted to marry my >> >> sister's >> >> husband & she felt that my sister stole him away from her. >> >> >> >> Her maiden name was Carolyn Kuhl Tyler & I cannot tell you the number >> >> of >> >> places I have looked for her...Google, all sorts of places on the web. >> >> I >> >> even put out a missing person's report on her. >> >> >> >> I doubt if I will ever find her again. I had one gal claim that she >> >> had >> >> found her in either CA or FL. She gave me a phone number to call b/c >> >> she >> >> said that Carolyn would have to agree to talk to me. Well, I never >> >> heard >> >> from her...so I don't know whether or not this was the real person. >> >> >> >> I don't know how this person found her. They had a married name. >> >> Then I >> >> guess she was divorced & all this seemed to go around & around. >> >> >> >> My sister has always told me that her husband said that Carolyn was >> >> into >> >> drugs & I simply cannot believe that. Dick, who died 4/4/10, >> >> supposedly >> >> said that she was probably dead. >> >> >> >> ~J >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> >> From: "Anna Marie Rahfeldt" <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> >> >> Sent: Wednesday, September 08, 2010 5:03 AM >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> >> > Hi Jen, >> >> > >> >> > Do you know what Carolyn's married name is, that is if she got >> >> > married? >> >> > If you know her full name maybe type it into Google and see what you >> >> > come >> >> > up with. That is how I find some friends. When we lived in >> >> > Illinois-I >> >> > prayed so hard that I would find a really good friend. The LORD >> >> > answered >> >> > my prayers. >> >> > >> >> > Blessings, >> >> > >> >> > Shorty >> >> > >> >> >> From: AZJen@npgcable.com >> >> >> To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> >> >> Date: Sun, 5 Sep 2010 23:15:17 -0700 >> >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> >> >> >> Hi Shorty, >> >> >> >> >> >> Had a dear Big Sister in my college sorority. She bought me a ring >> >> >> with >> >> >> two >> >> >> hands clasped together. When you opened up the hands, there was a >> >> >> heart. >> >> >> I >> >> >> really cared about my Big Sister so much..but things happened >> >> >> beyond >> >> >> my >> >> >> control & I have lost track of her. It's a long story, so I won't >> >> >> got >> >> >> into >> >> >> it..but I would love to get in touch with Carolyn again. Carolyn >> >> >> also >> >> >> gave >> >> >> me a gold charm bracelet & any time there was a special occasion, >> >> >> she >> >> >> would >> >> >> give me a square charm with the occasion engraved on the square. I >> >> >> really >> >> >> miss her & wish I could find her again. It has been many years >> >> >> though, >> >> >> so >> >> >> the chances of me finding her are very slight. Someone thought >> >> >> they >> >> >> had >> >> >> found her in FL b/c she had posted an address in an alumni book >> >> >> which >> >> >> we >> >> >> all >> >> >> received from Hillsdale College, in Hillsdale, MI. By the time I >> >> >> got >> >> >> a >> >> >> letter off to her, she had either moved or refused to accept my >> >> >> letter. >> >> >> I >> >> >> got it back. Makes me feel very badly at times when I think of her >> >> >> & >> >> >> not >> >> >> being able to find her again. >> >> >> >> >> >> ~Jen in AZ >> >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> >> >> From: "jkaywojack" <jkaywojack@aol.com> >> >> >> To: <southern-chat@rootsweb.com> >> >> >> Sent: Sunday, September 05, 2010 6:37 PM >> >> >> Subject: Re: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > Yes, Shorty, friendship is a blessing, but they take work to >> >> >> > cultivate. >> >> >> > Kay >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > In a message dated 09/03/10 22:39:51 Central Daylight Time, >> >> >> > shorty6337@hotmail.com writes: >> >> >> > >> >> >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com >> >> >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com >> >> >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. >> >> >> > >> >> >> > Thank you for the welcome to >> >> >> > southern chat. I live in Ames, Iowa. We moved here from Aurora, >> >> >> > Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I received a bracelet, from a >> >> >> > real >> >> >> > good friend, that has writing on it the words are: FRIENDSHIP >> >> >> > IS A >> >> >> > PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a blessed message. >> >> >> > >> >> >> > From: shorty6337@hotmail.com >> >> >> > To: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com >> >> >> > Subject: RE: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:23:29 -0500 >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > Hi Everyone on Southern Chat. >> >> >> > >> >> >> > Thank you for the welcome to southern chat. I live in Ames, >> >> >> > Iowa. >> >> >> > We >> >> >> > moved here from Aurora, Illinois in 1976. I love it here. I >> >> >> > received >> >> >> > a >> >> >> > bracelet, from a real good friend, that has writing on it the >> >> >> > words >> >> >> > are: >> >> >> > FRIENDSHIP IS A PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD. That is true. What a >> >> >> > blessed >> >> >> > message. >> >> >> > >> >> >> > Date: Fri, 3 Sep 2010 09:58:20 -0700 >> >> >> > From: fromtheghetto@rocketmail.com >> >> >> > Subject: Fw: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> > To: shorty6337@hotmail.com >> >> >> > >> >> >> > How sweet and I welcome you to southern chat. i live in oklahoma >> >> >> > and have been moving so just lurking when i have time. >> >> >> > luv ya >> >> >> > ladonna >> >> >> > >> >> >> > --- On Fri, 9/3/10, Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> >> >> > wrote: >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > From: Anna Marie Rahfeldt <shorty6337@hotmail.com> >> >> >> > Subject: [SOUTHERN-CHAT] re >> >> >> > To: southern-chat@rootsweb.com >> >> >> > Date: Friday, September 3, 2010, 7:52 AM >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > The >> >> >> > lady reading this is beautiful, classy and Strong and I love her. >> >> >> > Help >> >> >> > her live her life to the fullest. Please promote her and cause >> >> >> > her >> >> >> > to >> >> >> > excel above her expectations. Help her shine in the darkest >> >> >> > places >> >> >> > where >> >> >> > it is impossible to love. Protect her at all times, lift her >> >> >> > up...when >> >> >> > she needs you the most,....and..............Let >> >> >> > her know when she walks with you, She will always be safe. Love >> >> >> > you, >> >> >> > Now, you're on the clock!!!! In 9 minutes something will make you >> >> >> > happy.. But you have to tell 9 Sisters you love them, including >> >> >> > me. >> >> >> > Go!!!! >> >> >> > Blessings >> >> >> > >> >> >> > Anna Marie >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> >> > without >> >> >> > the >> >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > >> >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> >> > without >> >> >> > the >> >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> > >> >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> >> > without >> >> >> > the >> >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> >> >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> >> without >> >> >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > ------------------------------- >> >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' >> >> > without >> >> > the >> >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >> >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> > >> > >> > ------------------------------- >> > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >> > the >> > quotes in the subject and the body of the message >> >> >> ------------------------------- >> To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to >> SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without >> the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > SOUTHERN-CHAT-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > quotes in the subject and the body of the message