Hi Colleen Here is some info for starters. Link for Henry Cole's Death Notice: http://ancestry24.com/search-item/?id=C2149451171 Link for Henry & Emma Cole's headstone http://www.eggsa.org/library/main.php?g2_itemId=1276701 Link for Joseph Cole's headstone (Ist son of Henry Cole & May Jane Gillespie born in Co. Armagh) http://www.eggsa.org/library/main.php?g2_itemId=1276704 Link for older brother (Joseph Cole's) headstone. The inscriptions that he was a survivor of the Birkenhead & a Royal Horse Guard are suspect and very likely fictitious. I have researched extensively with negative results thus far. http://www.eggsa.org/library/main.php?g2_itemId=1276707 I have not yet found Mary Jane's grave wherabouts. Below is some relevant newpaper info obtained from Stephanie Victor at the Amatole Museum, KWT. Surname GIVEN REMARKS ADDRESS TOWN AGEY AGEM AGED DAY OF DEATH DAY OF BIRTH COLE Emma Domestic duties Cause: Enteric fever Smith Street King William's Town 37 1910/05/01 COLE Emma Wife of Henry KWT A. Edgecombe 1910/05/01 1873/11/03 COLE Henry European Hotelkeeper. Cause: Cirrhosis of liver Smith Street King William's Town 63 1912/05/04 COLE Henry Unsure if b/d date KWT A. Edgecombe 64 1912/05/06 COLE Joseph European male. Cause: Heart disease Smith Street, Masonic Hotel King William's Town 44 11 27 1918/07/14 COLE Joseph Unsure if b or d date KWT A. Edgecombe 45 1918/07/14 COLE Mary Jane Wife of Hy. C. Smith street. Cause: Softening of brain King William's Town 51 06 1906/08/29 COLE Mary Jane Wife of Henry. KWT A. Edgecombe 1906/08/29 1847/08/26 Alan