Hi Kelly, you must have picked this post up in the archives, or reading your mail since the post. It was rude and this person is no longer on our list. I encourage family info as sometimes this is the only way a clue is given that one might connect to another family. I do think it is important that the subject line be accurate so folks not wanting to read about Aunt Tillie, or my Benjamin, can delete the post. Also, many folks get lots of email & don't have the time to read it all and your post may get deleted if you don't correct the subject line to change the subject to your family. One more thing I would like to remind everyone of........every year at this time, lots of folks get new computers under their trees, join lists, and begin their genealogy search online. They are what we smilingly call "newbies". Most time newbies just lurk in the background to see how a list goes. But they do have questions and when a question is asked that you feel unnecessary, please remember that each of us was once a newbie and did not know all the ins and outs of being a list member. We all had questions and someone was nice enough to help us with the answers without making us feel real stupid.......I know lots of folks did for me. So welcome these newbies to our list because they just might hold the key to unlocking some of your family mysteries. Joyce, list manager