Hello Stella, There are two main cemeteries in East Grinstead, the now closed Queens Road cemetery, but the more likely one is Mount Noddy. Both are maintained by East Grinstead Town Council. Their website address is: www.eastgrinstead.gov.uk Cremations are generally at the privately run Surrey and Sussex Crematorium, Balcombe Rd, Crawley, RH10 3NQ. I'm afraid I don't know what either of their policies are as regards looking up records. Regards, Phil