The plot thickens... so to speak... maybe she isn't related to my Depews, but maybe she is.. In 1890 a list of plot owners was published for Hillside Cemetery, John Henry Depew & Benson see were co-owners of plot 32 , Block 3 Ave. A. Plot 33 where Arthena must be... to the right of plot 32, was purchased by Stephen Lounsbury. One of her children ..Anne Marie Tompkins married Horace B. Lounsbury in 1858. Does this help anybody??? :-) Judy Wolf