Have scanned and am virus free. E-mail is scanned by Norton before going out. Could the people who answered my plea for help on handling whether to let the 5 year old know the truth about the suicide resend their replies. I wanted to show the childs other family all the answers and I didn't copy them. Wouldn't you know my internet provider had a problem and we had to close the program and start new. I lost many valuable messages..Child's other side of family said they will be furious if we tell him his father hung himself when he asks. (By the way 10 people answered and all gave similar replies of why he should be truthfully answered yes that he did hang himself - because the cat is out of the bag evidentally) Not one person said no don't tell. Would appreciate if anyone has their answers in their sent box to send them again to me. My son who lives a little distance away lost all his e-mails too! Is this a coincidence when we use the same provider? We got messages saying "Can't retrieve e-mails" from ISP. I think this message we tried to open was a virus. I had much valuable genealogy saved in e-mails like census, links to family, etc. Now I know, to save on disk anything important or at least copy it. Thanks list. Betsy